Yelling at a child can have long-term psychologica Yelling at a child can have long-term psychological effects that hinder their development and psychological health. 

As parents, we need to understand that yelling is not an effective form of discipline and can lead to detrimental behavior patterns, such as decreased self-esteem and increased anxiety. 

In this youtube video, I share some tips that have been helping me to stop this bad habit. 

Sometimes, yelling is the only way to get your point across. No one likes the feeling, but sometimes it’s necessary! But there is a way to do it, so it’s not harmful. 

YouTube Channel: According to April

#parenting #yellingnotcool #parentproblems #newyoutubevideo
Now that the weather has changed, we must find som Now that the weather has changed, we must find something to keep these kids busy!!

I’m featuring the BEST products I use everyday for my sons and the deals on my latest Amazon Livestream!

🔗🔗🔗 You can ALWAYS shop the items and more in the link in my bio. 

Click on the link labeled “Shop my Amazon Storefront” and follow so you know every time I go live!

If you don’t have time to watch the replays, you can shop the carousel of the items mentioned in each live. 🛍️🛍️

Links to shop & how-tos:
🔗My Amazon Store
🔗My Amazon Livestream Replays
🔗My weekly newsletter, where I share the best deals from Amazon and more 
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————

#amazonfinds #amazonlive #amazonreview #amazonrecap #amazoninfluencer #amazoninfluencerprogram #amazonkids
Recently we went to the @disney100exhibit , and we Recently we went to the @disney100exhibit , and we had a good time.

Noah practically ran through it that we will have to go back 😩😂

It was so nice to see the origins of Disney and the fact that it’s so close to us makes it ten times better. 

Let me know in the comments below  if you are going to the #disney100yearsofwonder 🔽 and follow @accordingtoaprilxo for more mom life adventure 

#mommoments  #NewMoms #njmomblogger #njmom #phillymom #phillyblogger #franklininstitute #visitphiladelphia #waltdisney #phila #familydaysout #familyadventure #preschoolmom
I never knew teaching someone how to brush their t I never knew teaching someone how to brush their teeth could be so rewarding! 😍🦷

 #ProudMama #ToddlerLife #proudpapa
It’s ok to do a mini self-care routine before th It’s ok to do a mini self-care routine before the family gets up. 

I usually have about 10 minutes to myself in the mornings, and I try to use it to my advantage. (You can see Cooper’s shadow, so even with him, I get no time off 🤣)

Lately, I’ve been more intentional about pouring into my cup, so when it’s time. I can pour into the family.

How do you pour into yourself before the day starts? Let me know in the comments below 🔽 and follow @accordingtoaprilxo for more mom tips 

#NewMoms #njmomblogger #njmom #phillymom #phillymomblogger #selfcaremom #momhack #womenswellness #momwellness #mentalhealthmotivation
The weather is starting to get warm which means tr The weather is starting to get warm which means travel season is upon us and we have to find something fun to do with these kids!!!

I’m featuring some everyday deals and great ways to kick off games with your toddler this Spring & Summer on my latest Amazon Livestream!

🔗🔗🔗 You can ALWAYS shop the items and more in the link in my bio. 

Click on the link labeled “Shop my Amazon Storefront” and follow so you know every time I go live!

If you don’t have time to watch the replays, you can shop the carousel of the items mentioned in each live. 🛍️🛍️

Links to shop & how-tos:
🔗My Amazon Store
🔗My Amazon Livestream Replays
🔗My weekly newsletter where I share the best deals from Amazon and more 
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————
#amazonfinds #amazontoys #amazoninfluencer #amazoninfluencerprogram #amazontravel #amazon #amazonmusthaves #amazoninfluencer
If you ever wanted to get your kids a couch, here If you ever wanted to get your kids a couch, here is one to check out.

The family is doing an unboxing, assembly, and 1st impressions of this Serta Perfect Sleeper Toddler Sofa.

I got it because Noah loves lounging all over the house and I wanted him to have a designated place. He’s a busybody 😭

It’s machine washable, super soft and it’s a HIT! 🛋️. Check out my YouTube channel for the full video and details. 

Links to shop & how-tos:
🔗 My LTK page where you can get this couch for your kids. Comes in Gray & Pink 
🔗 My YouTube Channel for the links to the product and the full video
🔗 My newsletter so you get early access to all my content before everyone else
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————
YouTube Channel: According to April

#productreviewer #serta #perfectsleep #toddlerproducts #preschoolermom #phillymom #njmom #momblogger #amazon #amazonmusthaves #amazonkids @amazon @serta
I get asked all the time how Cooper is doing. As y I get asked all the time how Cooper is doing. As you can see, he’s greedy. 

Now that the weather is getting warmer, longer walks and more grass time for this furry one. 

Follow @cooperbearthecorgi_ for more cuteness.

#corgisofinstagram #corgisftw #begginstrips #dogtreatsfordays #corgisgonnacorg #corgisofphiladelphia
These past few weeks have been eye-opening. It all These past few weeks have been eye-opening. It allowed me to press the RESET BUTTON.

If you know me you know I’m a workaholic 🤣. I’m always working on something for the blog, my YouTube channel, or events.

But I also need to find some chill in all of this! 

Being a full-time work-from-home mom doesn’t allow me much time to me so I’m in the new season of my life where I’ve got to rebuild some boundaries. 

You’d be surprised how much you let slide for your job, family, friends, etc until you sit back and realize that it’s not keeping you well. And I have to be well, I got things to do for my people 🫶🏾

Today, I’m going to finish up my weekly newsletter (🔗 in bio to sign up), hang with Noah and play with Cooper. 

What are you doing this weekend? Let me know in the comment ⬇️

#njmomblogger #njmom #phillymom #phillymomblogger #lifeupdate #busymoms #workingmomstruggles
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First Year Postpartum Advice, Personal Development for Moms · January 6, 2023

7 Tricks For Work Life Balance for Moms

After returning to work, I understand why it’s so important to create work life balance for moms. I am working while raising children is a whole new job that no one understands until you have children. Whether you have kids…

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Pregnancy, Self Care Tips for Busy Moms · November 7, 2022

10 Ways to Make Sure Your Pregnancy Diet Menu is Not Harming Your Baby

I wish I had had a pregnancy diet menu when I had my son. The first trimester of pregnancy can be a challenging time for a woman. I didn’t have any complications during my pregnancy, but I’m one of the…

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Personal Development for Moms · September 7, 2022

10 Facts About New Mom Struggles You Need to Know

No one talks about the new mom struggles. Sometimes I think to myself. These people must be living in the twilight zone because my mom’s life is nowhere near what you are talking about.  Motherhood has been the hardest to understand…

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Pregnancy · July 18, 2022

13 Secrets on How to Gain Minimal Weight While Pregnant

All women have concerns about how to gain minimal weight while pregnant. While my healthcare provider mentioned that the amount of weight that I gained was healthy weight gain, that doesn’t mean you want to keep on the extra weight after…

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Self Care Tips for Busy Moms · July 12, 2022

8 Get in Shape Workouts You Need To Know

Trying to find ways to get in shape workout can be tough. Now that I am finally in the stages of getting my mind and body right, even though I had a gym membership, I decided to cancel it because…

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First Year Postpartum Advice · July 4, 2022

13 Best Postpartum Exercises for Tummy

After I had my son, one of the things that I focused on was postpartum exercises for tummy. The biggest fear that comes with exercising is getting diastasis recti. If you don’t know what that is, the abdominal separation of your…

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Personal Development for Moms · March 25, 2021

7 Tips on How to Overcome Imposter Syndrome for Good

You can read so many books and articles on how to overcome imposter syndrome. I know so many people who have Imposter Syndrome, and it shows up in the more mysterious ways. Have you ever felt like you don’t belong,…

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Personal Development for Moms · January 10, 2021

4 Powerful Affirmations To Use All of 2021

Now that I am one week into the new year, I feel more settled into my goals and set up for the year. Sometimes you can lose momentum after the new year’s hype wears off, but I will say there…

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Personal Development for Moms · January 8, 2021

Early January Q&A for Q1 of 2021

Towards the end of 2020, the DMs on IG starting lighting up, asking me to do a Q&A. I get asked how I balance working from home full time, the brand and family life, and the short answer “I do.”…

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Personal Development for Moms · December 31, 2020

Recapping My Top 5 Most Popular Blog Posts of 2020

When I started my blog in March 2020, I had no idea of where it would take me. I started because I was eight weeks postpartum and needed an outlet due to the pandemic. Who knew I would be recapping…

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Personal Development for Moms · December 27, 2020

3 Books I Recommend For Bloggers To Grow to a Six-Figure Business

In the last couple of months, I’ve started back reading books. I’ve never been a big reader.  I realized I needed more direct self-help. I knew getting a book would be the best way to learn something new.  Sometimes the…

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13 Fun and Cool Lessons From Holiday Classics

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Yelling at a child can have long-term psychologica Yelling at a child can have long-term psychological effects that hinder their development and psychological health. 

As parents, we need to understand that yelling is not an effective form of discipline and can lead to detrimental behavior patterns, such as decreased self-esteem and increased anxiety. 

In this youtube video, I share some tips that have been helping me to stop this bad habit. 

Sometimes, yelling is the only way to get your point across. No one likes the feeling, but sometimes it’s necessary! But there is a way to do it, so it’s not harmful. 

YouTube Channel: According to April

#parenting #yellingnotcool #parentproblems #newyoutubevideo
Now that the weather has changed, we must find som Now that the weather has changed, we must find something to keep these kids busy!!

I’m featuring the BEST products I use everyday for my sons and the deals on my latest Amazon Livestream!

🔗🔗🔗 You can ALWAYS shop the items and more in the link in my bio. 

Click on the link labeled “Shop my Amazon Storefront” and follow so you know every time I go live!

If you don’t have time to watch the replays, you can shop the carousel of the items mentioned in each live. 🛍️🛍️

Links to shop & how-tos:
🔗My Amazon Store
🔗My Amazon Livestream Replays
🔗My weekly newsletter, where I share the best deals from Amazon and more 
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————

#amazonfinds #amazonlive #amazonreview #amazonrecap #amazoninfluencer #amazoninfluencerprogram #amazonkids
Recently we went to the @disney100exhibit , and we Recently we went to the @disney100exhibit , and we had a good time.

Noah practically ran through it that we will have to go back 😩😂

It was so nice to see the origins of Disney and the fact that it’s so close to us makes it ten times better. 

Let me know in the comments below  if you are going to the #disney100yearsofwonder 🔽 and follow @accordingtoaprilxo for more mom life adventure 

#mommoments  #NewMoms #njmomblogger #njmom #phillymom #phillyblogger #franklininstitute #visitphiladelphia #waltdisney #phila #familydaysout #familyadventure #preschoolmom
I never knew teaching someone how to brush their t I never knew teaching someone how to brush their teeth could be so rewarding! 😍🦷

 #ProudMama #ToddlerLife #proudpapa
It’s ok to do a mini self-care routine before th It’s ok to do a mini self-care routine before the family gets up. 

I usually have about 10 minutes to myself in the mornings, and I try to use it to my advantage. (You can see Cooper’s shadow, so even with him, I get no time off 🤣)

Lately, I’ve been more intentional about pouring into my cup, so when it’s time. I can pour into the family.

How do you pour into yourself before the day starts? Let me know in the comments below 🔽 and follow @accordingtoaprilxo for more mom tips 

#NewMoms #njmomblogger #njmom #phillymom #phillymomblogger #selfcaremom #momhack #womenswellness #momwellness #mentalhealthmotivation
The weather is starting to get warm which means tr The weather is starting to get warm which means travel season is upon us and we have to find something fun to do with these kids!!!

I’m featuring some everyday deals and great ways to kick off games with your toddler this Spring & Summer on my latest Amazon Livestream!

🔗🔗🔗 You can ALWAYS shop the items and more in the link in my bio. 

Click on the link labeled “Shop my Amazon Storefront” and follow so you know every time I go live!

If you don’t have time to watch the replays, you can shop the carousel of the items mentioned in each live. 🛍️🛍️

Links to shop & how-tos:
🔗My Amazon Store
🔗My Amazon Livestream Replays
🔗My weekly newsletter where I share the best deals from Amazon and more 
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————
#amazonfinds #amazontoys #amazoninfluencer #amazoninfluencerprogram #amazontravel #amazon #amazonmusthaves #amazoninfluencer
If you ever wanted to get your kids a couch, here If you ever wanted to get your kids a couch, here is one to check out.

The family is doing an unboxing, assembly, and 1st impressions of this Serta Perfect Sleeper Toddler Sofa.

I got it because Noah loves lounging all over the house and I wanted him to have a designated place. He’s a busybody 😭

It’s machine washable, super soft and it’s a HIT! 🛋️. Check out my YouTube channel for the full video and details. 

Links to shop & how-tos:
🔗 My LTK page where you can get this couch for your kids. Comes in Gray & Pink 
🔗 My YouTube Channel for the links to the product and the full video
🔗 My newsletter so you get early access to all my content before everyone else
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————
YouTube Channel: According to April

#productreviewer #serta #perfectsleep #toddlerproducts #preschoolermom #phillymom #njmom #momblogger #amazon #amazonmusthaves #amazonkids @amazon @serta
I get asked all the time how Cooper is doing. As y I get asked all the time how Cooper is doing. As you can see, he’s greedy. 

Now that the weather is getting warmer, longer walks and more grass time for this furry one. 

Follow @cooperbearthecorgi_ for more cuteness.

#corgisofinstagram #corgisftw #begginstrips #dogtreatsfordays #corgisgonnacorg #corgisofphiladelphia
These past few weeks have been eye-opening. It all These past few weeks have been eye-opening. It allowed me to press the RESET BUTTON.

If you know me you know I’m a workaholic 🤣. I’m always working on something for the blog, my YouTube channel, or events.

But I also need to find some chill in all of this! 

Being a full-time work-from-home mom doesn’t allow me much time to me so I’m in the new season of my life where I’ve got to rebuild some boundaries. 

You’d be surprised how much you let slide for your job, family, friends, etc until you sit back and realize that it’s not keeping you well. And I have to be well, I got things to do for my people 🫶🏾

Today, I’m going to finish up my weekly newsletter (🔗 in bio to sign up), hang with Noah and play with Cooper. 

What are you doing this weekend? Let me know in the comment ⬇️

#njmomblogger #njmom #phillymom #phillymomblogger #lifeupdate #busymoms #workingmomstruggles
Even when I’m not feeling my best I try to read Even when I’m not feeling my best I try to read at least 1 book to him a day.  Reading a book every day to your kid(s):

1️⃣ it’s time well spent
2️⃣ it builds imagination 
3️⃣ you get to know your child in a different way
4️⃣ helps with building language 
5️⃣ build core memories

Currently, he makes me read all 6 of the books we got during black history month 🤣. But I wouldn’t have it any other way.

What do you do daily with your kid(s)? 

Follow @accordingtoaprilxo for more mom tips!

#parentingtips #NewMoms #njmomblogger #njmom #phillymom #phillymomblogger #readingtime📖 #preschoolmom #momtips
Part 4 of my #celebrateblackhistory month series i Part 4 of my #celebrateblackhistory month series is LIVE! In the previous videos, we discovered 

1️⃣ Black Authors
2️⃣ Black Shows voiced by Black & AfroLatino actors
3️⃣ Black Hair Care Companies 

This video is about black own toy companies and most of them focus on #STEM.

STEM is so important. 💪🏾 Getting our kids exposed to it will build the next generation of scientists, mathematicians and doctors and I’m happy to share these companies that need our support all year round.

Links to shop & how-tos:
🔗 My YouTube Channel for the list of toy companies mentioned in this video
🔗 My newsletter so you get early access to all my content before everyone else
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————
YouTube Channel: According to April

Black Owned Toy Companies tagged below ✊🏾

@browntoybox  @themathgicprince @blackgirlmathgic @kidochicago @puzzlehuddle @adventureacademy @theblacktoystore 

#stemforkids #stemtoys #blackownedbusiness #blackowned #toysforkids #blacktoys #target
Everything this week was about being able to trave Everything this week was about being able to travel and be healthy.

I’m featuring some everyday deals and great ways to kick off spring travel in my latest Amazon Livestream!

🔗🔗🔗 You can ALWAYS shop the items and more in the link in my bio. 

Click on the link labeled “Shop my Amazon Storefront” and follow so you know every time I go live!

If you don’t have time to watch the replays, you can shop the carousel of the items mentioned in each live. 🛍️🛍️

Links to shop & how-tos:
🔗My Amazon Store
🔗My Amazon Livestream Replays
🔗My weekly newsletter where I share the best deals from Amazon and more 
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————

#amazonlive #amazoninfluencer #amazonfinds #amazonfinds #amazonmusthaves #amazon #amazontravel
Just did a recap of all my favorite Amazon Product Just did a recap of all my favorite Amazon Products from February!

I sprinkled a bit of health, home and travel. These products all are available on Prime are really affordable. 

Links to shop & how-tos:
🔗 My LTK Shop for a full list of the products in this video 
🔗 My YouTube Channel for the list of all the products I talked about this month.
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————
YouTube Channel: According to April

#amazonfinds #amazonmusthaves #amazoninfluencer #amazonhome #amazontravel #amazonhealth
It’s amazing what a 6-month difference makes 👶🏽👦🏽

The 1st time we went, the bowling alley had a kid ramp so Noah would use it to bowl.

The 2nd time we went, the ramp wasn’t available so we had to make do.

For the first 30 minutes, Noah didn’t understand why he couldn’t go down the ramp to roll the ball. He threw a FIT. 

But he adapted. With patience from me and the hubs, and positive reinforcement, Noah was able to spend the last 30 mins bowling.

Watching him build confidence and problem-solve in real-time makes it all worth it in the end. 

Am I the only one that still can’t believe they had a whole kid that is out here making full sentences and getting dressed on their own 😩

#bowlingfun #preschooler #toddlerboy #njmom #phillymom #familyfuntime
Celebrate Black History Month with a special treat Celebrate Black History Month with a special treat for your little one! Try out these amazing black hair products to keep their curls looking great!

Even if you don’t have curly hair, Black History Month is not over so there is still time to share support for black-owned businesses

Links to shop & how-tos:
🔗 My YouTube Channel for the list of all the products mentioned in this video
🔗 My newsletter so you get early access to all my content before everyone else
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————
YouTube Channel: According to April

 #BlackHistoryMonth #BlackHairProducts #CurlsOnFleek #bhm #lovingyourcurls #happykidshappymom
Spring is coming so why not get a head start on so Spring is coming so why not get a head start on some items that you need for kids and home.

I’m featuring some everyday deals and great ways to kick off spring cleaning in my latest Amazon Livestream!

🔗🔗🔗 You can ALWAYS shop the items and more in the link in my bio. 

Click on the link labeled “Shop my Amazon Storefront” and follow so you know every time I go live!

If you don’t have time to watch the replays, you can shop the carousel of the items mentioned in each live. 🛍️🛍️

Links to shop & how-tos:
🔗My Amazon Store
🔗My Amazon Livestream Replays
🔗My weekly newsletter where I share the best deals from Amazon and more 
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————

#amazonfinds #amazonlive #amazonlivestream #amazoninfluencer #amazoninfluencerprogram #travelpillow #toiletdecor #cabinetorganization
Celebrate #BlackHistoryMonth by tuning into these Celebrate #BlackHistoryMonth by tuning into these amazing kid shows that feature Black and Afro-Latino voices. 

Motown Magic to Eureka, there are so many great shows to watch and learn from this month. 

#KidShows #LearnAndGrow #BHM #BlackVoicesLeadTheWay

Links to shop & how-tos:
🔗 My YouTube Channel for the list of all the shows mentioned in this video
🔗 My newsletter so you get early access to all my content before everyone else
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————
YouTube Channel: According to April

#mydadthebountyhunter #eureka #riseupsingout #docmucstuffins #proudfamily #motownmagic #karmasworld #gabbysdollhouse 

@netfelixfamily @disneyplus @disneyjunior
New parents, don’t forget to take time for yours New parents, don’t forget to take time for yourself! Here are 4 tips to help manage your time and care for yourself: 

➡️Set priorities - not everything is urgent. Do the most important things first and worry about everything else later.
➡️Plan ahead - you can’t do last minute things with kids, it’s just not happening. 
➡️Ask for help- it takes a village to raise a child but also to raise parents. Don’t be afraid to ask for help, people will ask you for help so give that same energy!
➡️Group similar tasks together - if you have to wash the bottles and dishes, just do them both at the same time. 

Follow @accordingtoaprilxo for more mom hacks!

#MomsAndDads #TimeManagement #SelfCare #parentingtips #NewMoms #njmomblogger #njmom #phillymom #phillymomblogger
Dealing with toddler tantrums can be a real challe Dealing with toddler tantrums can be a real challenge! Here are 3 easy tips: 

😌Stay Calm. You can manage your emotions. Your baby can’t. Yes, parenting can be frustrating but if you both are screaming and crying when who is making dinner?

😭Let them cry it out. Only do this after you have changed them, they are fed and have no fever!!

🤗 Stay present. Being mad about them doing baby stuff isn’t going to resolve the issue. Focus on the current issue so you aren’t bringing up past things that might affect the outcome. 

Follow @accordingtoaprilxo for more mom hacks!

#toddlertantrums #parentingtips #calmdown #NewMoms #njmomblogger #njmom #phillymom #phillymomblogger
It’s clear that my children don’t understand t It’s clear that my children don’t understand the assignment. 

This video was so cute that I had to remix this video by @tiffanydarlyn because Noah and Cooper clearly are siblings, just not with each other apparently.

#toddlermomclub #preschoolmom #corgimom #njmom #phillymom
                 

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