11 Traits of Being a Great New Parent
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It’s not easy to be a great parent, especially for first-time parents. Most of us didn’t have the best examples to follow, and it’s not a skill taught in school. You either have to educate yourself or learn on the job. But know that there is no hard and fast rule to being a great parent. Showing up, each and every day even when you are dead tired and still have to push through for your kids just goes to show what being a great parent is all about.
While there are many parenting styles, successful parents share attributes that give their children the best chance for success and happiness. Most parents have a few of these attributes but must develop the others.
Great parents share many attributes which include the below:
- Patience. You knew this would be at the top of the list. Children are messy, noisy, don’t listen well, and exasperating. They can be pretty incredible, too. But patience is essential. Learning to take a deep breath and relax can help more than just your parenting skills.
- Multitasking skills. Dealing with the house, work, and children require a great ability to multitask. Children always pull your attention away from whatever you’re doing. It’s not easy to regain your focus.
- Encouraging. Children quickly learn to doubt themselves and worry about the opinions of others. One of the best ways to combat this is to encourage your kids. With enough encouragement, a child can become their best self.
- Supportive. Encouragement and support go hand-in-hand. Children with support grow up to be relaxed and comfortable. Without help, the world can be a scary place. Teach your child there’s little to fear.
- Intelligence. One of the hallmarks of information is problem-solving. Children provide a unique set of challenges that have to be solved. A little brain power can help you to navigate the minefield that parenting can entail.
- Flexibility. Many of your parenting attempts will fail. You must be flexible enough to have multiple solutions up your sleeve. When one doesn’t work, you can always try something else. Plans are ever-changing, too. It helps if you can go with the flow.
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- Good leadership skills. You might be able to boss your kids around, but they’ll resent it, and they never forget. It’s more effective to have excellent leadership skills and only throw your parental weight around when necessary.
- Dependability. Kids feel safe when they have reliable and dependable parents. They have to know that you’re there for them. How much can your kids trust your word? How honest do your friends consider you to be?
- Compassion. Children need to develop and experience empathy. Kids need understanding and comforting. Can you provide those two things?
- Sense of humor. Your children will give you plenty of opportunities to laugh. It would be a shame to allow those moments to go to waste. You’ll keep your sanity if you have a great sense of humor.
- Self-awareness. Children aren’t sure how to act. It’s up to you to be a role model. You’ll find that kids react to situations in ways that mimic your reactions. They don’t know any other way. It’s essential to be self-aware enough to see if you’re a good role model.
Parenting is one job that requires your utmost effort and attention. Great kids most often have great parents. Being a great parent isn’t easy, but it’s easier if you build these attributes. You can develop these attributes with practice and determination. Be the best parent you can be and enjoy the process.
