And if you are looking for U.S. Coast Guard-approv And if you are looking for U.S. Coast Guard-approved Type III swim gear, I got you, sis.

I recently wrote a blog post about the Best Swim Vests & Swim Gear for toddlers for this exact reason. 

Since we’re back outside and summer is coming, we must protect our kids. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, drownings for children under age 19 are highest among Black, Native and American Indian groups.

The highest number of deaths are children between the ages of 12 to 36 months. 

This is why keeping your child safe during water activities is the highest priority, especially if you have a pool, are near a pool, or doing any heavy beach travel during vacations and the summer months.

So for my picks of the best swim diapers, floaters, jumpers, life, and swim vests visit my blog. www.AccordingtoApril.com, or you can visit my LTK Shop and shop my recommended products there. 

Link in bio for the post and the products. 

Who got us? @accordingtoaprilxo got us! 

Want more links to shop & how-tos?
🔗 My LTK Shop
🔗 My Etsy Shop for My Printables
🔗 My Youtube Channel
🔗 MyWeekly Newsletter
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————

#swimgear #swimmom #kidssafety #ontheblogtoday #amazonfinds2023 #walmartdeals #targetlove #summerfun☀️
Happy Mother’s Day! If you want your kids to giv Happy Mother’s Day! If you want your kids to give you something today, #onyoutube I share 5 easy things for your kids to do. 

Links to shop & how-tos:
🔗 My LTK Shop
🔗 My Youtube Channel
🔗 My Weekly Newsletter
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————

Enjoy your day the way you want it! #happymothersday❤️ #youtubechannels #giftideasformom
Getting dressed when you work from home all the ti Getting dressed when you work from home all the time does help your mood. 

While I don’t do it all the time, I try to do it weekly so Noah sees me do it. He needs to see that even if we’re home, we take pride in ourselves even if there are things on us we want to fix. 

How often do you get dressed when you work from home? 

#momtips #workfromhomemoms #momlifekeepingitreal
My child has quite of bit of bath toys, so it was My child has quite of bit of bath toys, so it was time to organize them. 

I put them this high because “3-Year-Olds,” and it’s been working out for us. 

I don’t have to worry about finding them ransoming in the bathroom, and it’s made bath time so much easier because Noah can see the toys and put them back. 

Links to shop & how-tos:
🔗 My LTK Shop
🔗 My Youtube Channel
🔗 My Weekly Newsletter
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————

It was super easy to put together, and as you can see, it holds a lot!

#liketkit #LTKunder50 #LTKbaby #LTKkids
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https://liketk.it/494a9

#toddlermoms #amazonfind #amazonfinds #boymomadventures #amazonhomefinds #toyorganization
If your toddler is still struggling with language If your toddler is still struggling with language development, you might want to consider exposing them to age-appropriate television shows designed to aid in language development. 

These shows incorporate vibrant colors and engaging music to make the learning process fun and effective. 

By incorporating a toddler show focusing on language development, you can effortlessly introduce your child to new words and phrases.

#ontheblogtoday I share 19 of the best shows for toddler speech development. 

Here are three (3) more shows that are on this list:
1️⃣ @beat_bugs
2️⃣ #danieltigersneighborhood @pbskids
3️⃣ #docmcstuffins @disneyjunior

Link in Bio or click Link in Stories.

Want more links to shop & how-tos?
🔗 My LTK Shop
🔗 My Etsy Shop for My Printables
🔗 My Youtube Channel
🔗 MyWeekly Newsletter
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————

#ontheblog #toddlerspeech #kidshows
When I say, “Noah be Cappin’.” I literally m When I say, “Noah be Cappin’.” I literally mean Capricorning 🤣

Someone the other day said that Noah and I (earth signs) are wearing my hubs (water sign) out, and they are right 🤣🤣

The hubs can hold his own but trust even I ain’t no match for a Cap.

How do the zodiac signs make up your family dynamic? 

#familydinners #earthsigns #watersigns
Screen time is not as bad as everyone makes it. Screen time is not as bad as everyone makes it. 

Your child can learn by watching some great shows, including learning how to speak.

If you are looking for shows that can aid your toddler’s development, #ontheblogtoday I share 19 of the best shows for toddler speech development. 

Here are 3 of the shows that are on this list:
1️⃣ @msrachelforlittles
2️⃣ @sesamestreet
3️⃣ @officialpeppa

Link in Bio or click Link in Stories for the complete list of shows.

Want more links to shop & how-tos?
🔗 My LTK Shop
🔗 My Etsy Shop for My Printables
🔗 My Youtube Channel
🔗 MyWeekly Newsletter
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————
#toddlerspeech #kidshows #toddlerdevelopment
Hey mama! If you need to get more baby shampoo, #a Hey mama! If you need to get more baby shampoo, #aveeno  just went on sale. It’s $5 off right now on #amazon. 

Get it now while it lasts. Click link in my stories & highlights to get this product directly!

Follow my shop @accordingtoapril on the @shop.LTK app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content!

#liketkit #LTKsalealert #LTKbaby #LTKunder50
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One last birthday related post. 🎂 Loved my cak One last birthday related post. 🎂

Loved my cake so much that my sis @sweet_k_  got for me. I wanted something colorful and she nailed it. 

Thank you to everyone who wished me a Happy Birthday! 

Now back to back to business ♉️

#happybirthdaytome #taurus♉️ #aprilbaby
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5 Mom Self-Care Hacks for Busy Moms That are Important

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When you first become a parent, everything and everyone makes it seem that the only important thing to do is take care of your baby. Mom self-care is not talked about a lot but is essential. While taking care of your baby is critical, if you as the mom are not doing well, your baby won’t do well. 

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When people ask about the baby or kids a lot of times, they forget to ask how you are doing, and it can make you feel small or that your role as a parent is not as important. As a mom of a toddler, being in that space and understanding the feeling got me to really start prioritizing myself over my child so that I could be the best version of myself for my child and family. 

It’s not something that happens overnight, and in the early weeks and months, it can be hard to do. However, these five hacks have made being a mom less daunting and allowed the fun to return when it comes to parenting.

This post is about mom self-care.

Get Up and Get Moving

Moving your body is very important for your mental and physical health. I can release stress, become a great distraction, and allow you to escape the nuance of parenting for a few. If you live in colder climates, you might not be able to go outside until the weather changes. However, you can create a space in your home to get moving. 

Some of the favorite exercises for moms that are also family-friendly include:

  • Yoga
  • Pilates
  • Walking
  • Lunges and Squats

These are exercises you can do throughout the day and don’t require you to break out in a deep sweat. Playing with your kids is another excellent way of getting up and out. If you have small children, dancing with them, have them run around at the park or play pretend with them. Not only does it have significant benefits for the kids, but it’s a great way to bond while also doing something for you in case you can’t always have a break from the kids. 

Pamper Yourself Daily

Finding time to pamper yourself is hard as a mom. With all the responsibility that motherhood includes, you can’t even see the time to go to the bathroom yourself. There is a way to do this if you are doing it in a way that creates a boundary for yourself. You will see that it is possible and that you can be successful in doing it. 

Create a Morning Routine. This can be five minutes of uninterrupted time focusing on your skincare. Some products that can create good skincare for the face and body and have been a personal favorite of mine:

– Proactive

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– Aveeno

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– Cerave Eye Repair Cream

You can do this before the family gets up in the morning. You won’t be disappointed how easy this is to do and incorporate into your day.

If you have toddlers, use their nap time to have five minutes to yourself. Having a drink for a favorite snack or even listening to a podcast or book is a great way to reset your mood throughout the day. 

Socialize and Make Time for Friendships

Making friends as an adult is very hard. It’s even harder when you became a parent in the last few years with the global pandemic happening. While you might be able to make friends with parents that you see at your kids’ events, depending on age, it can be years before you are in a space where that is possible. 

Some are lucky to still be in contact with friends from school, college, or childhood friends, and that can be helpful when needing to talk to adults at times. After having children, it will be harder to maintain some of those relationships, especially if your friends don’t have children, but finding ways to connect will be vital for you as a mom and woman. 

Fun activities to do with your friends:

  1. Travel
  2. Girls’ Night (At home or out on the town)
  3. Brunch
  4. Day Trips

These are just a few activities, but there are more ways than you can find ways to socialize with your friends. Other forms of making friends could include joining your school volunteer club, your kids joining sports teams, or helping at your kids’ daycare.

Eat Well and Things You Love

Who doesn’t love eating their favorite foods? If you’re like me, some of your favorite foods are the unhealthiest things to eat but taste good and make you feel good too. 

While eating your favorite foods occasionally is mom’s goal, you will also want to focus on eating good foods. One, because your kids are looking at what you eat, and you want them to see that you are making good choices, you also need fuel to get you through the day of parenting. 

Imagine your toddler wants to play with you, but you are always tired. Some of that comes from your diet. I’m not saying that you should completely change your diet and what you are eating, but I am saying that finding a few healthy foods that you can snack on throughout the day is a great start. 

Keep in mind it’s best to try and eat these snacks when your kids aren’t around because if you are eating, your kids are eating it as well, so I would snack in your car while they are napping or out of the house. Some snacks that are great for energy that everyone can eat:

  • Bananas
  • Peanut Butter
  • Almonds
  • Watermelon
  • Greek Yogurt and Granola
  • Turkey
  • Skinless Chicken
  • Blueberries
  • Eggs

Seek Therapy for the Best Mom-Self Care

As a first-time mom during the start of the pandemic, postpartum depression and anxiety almost made my first year of motherhood impossible. Motherhood is the most challenging job globally. Without the right tools and resources, it can seem like you are alone and may want to give up. 

Therapy is a great way to discover the work you need to do to be the best version of yourself, and the best part is that you can make it all about yourself. There are many different types of therapy, and you can pick the one that works best for you. 

Many moms go to therapy at the beginning of their journey, and it’s allowed them to grow and understand better ways of using what they have to make time for themselves and have that “me time” that is needed. 

There are several resources to find a therapist, but my favorites are Therapy for Black Girls and Better Help. Both sites offer ways of finding a therapist in your area that can fit your budget and needs. Also, many employers offer discounts or a certain number of free sessions. So you want to look into taking advantage of this. 

With the online, in-person, or hybrid options, this is one of the best ways to take care of yourself. Get your concerns heard, and heal from any motherhood trauma that could exist.

On my Instagram, I talk more about my postpartum journey, and I’ve written about it as well. You can click here to read more about it, and you can plan the videos below where I discuss this matter. 

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No one talks about everything that comes with motherhood, but it’s important to remember that mom self-care should be at the top of all conversations to protect motherhood. Moms can do everyday things to ensure simple steps are taken to take care of themselves. Making yourself a priority will only help your kids, family, and moving forward.

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And if you are looking for U.S. Coast Guard-approv And if you are looking for U.S. Coast Guard-approved Type III swim gear, I got you, sis.

I recently wrote a blog post about the Best Swim Vests & Swim Gear for toddlers for this exact reason. 

Since we’re back outside and summer is coming, we must protect our kids. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, drownings for children under age 19 are highest among Black, Native and American Indian groups.

The highest number of deaths are children between the ages of 12 to 36 months. 

This is why keeping your child safe during water activities is the highest priority, especially if you have a pool, are near a pool, or doing any heavy beach travel during vacations and the summer months.

So for my picks of the best swim diapers, floaters, jumpers, life, and swim vests visit my blog. www.AccordingtoApril.com, or you can visit my LTK Shop and shop my recommended products there. 

Link in bio for the post and the products. 

Who got us? @accordingtoaprilxo got us! 

Want more links to shop & how-tos?
🔗 My LTK Shop
🔗 My Etsy Shop for My Printables
🔗 My Youtube Channel
🔗 MyWeekly Newsletter
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————

#swimgear #swimmom #kidssafety #ontheblogtoday #amazonfinds2023 #walmartdeals #targetlove #summerfun☀️
Happy Mother’s Day! If you want your kids to giv Happy Mother’s Day! If you want your kids to give you something today, #onyoutube I share 5 easy things for your kids to do. 

Links to shop & how-tos:
🔗 My LTK Shop
🔗 My Youtube Channel
🔗 My Weekly Newsletter
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————

Enjoy your day the way you want it! #happymothersday❤️ #youtubechannels #giftideasformom
Getting dressed when you work from home all the ti Getting dressed when you work from home all the time does help your mood. 

While I don’t do it all the time, I try to do it weekly so Noah sees me do it. He needs to see that even if we’re home, we take pride in ourselves even if there are things on us we want to fix. 

How often do you get dressed when you work from home? 

#momtips #workfromhomemoms #momlifekeepingitreal
My child has quite of bit of bath toys, so it was My child has quite of bit of bath toys, so it was time to organize them. 

I put them this high because “3-Year-Olds,” and it’s been working out for us. 

I don’t have to worry about finding them ransoming in the bathroom, and it’s made bath time so much easier because Noah can see the toys and put them back. 

Links to shop & how-tos:
🔗 My LTK Shop
🔗 My Youtube Channel
🔗 My Weekly Newsletter
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————

It was super easy to put together, and as you can see, it holds a lot!

#liketkit #LTKunder50 #LTKbaby #LTKkids
@shop.ltk
https://liketk.it/494a9

#toddlermoms #amazonfind #amazonfinds #boymomadventures #amazonhomefinds #toyorganization
If your toddler is still struggling with language If your toddler is still struggling with language development, you might want to consider exposing them to age-appropriate television shows designed to aid in language development. 

These shows incorporate vibrant colors and engaging music to make the learning process fun and effective. 

By incorporating a toddler show focusing on language development, you can effortlessly introduce your child to new words and phrases.

#ontheblogtoday I share 19 of the best shows for toddler speech development. 

Here are three (3) more shows that are on this list:
1️⃣ @beat_bugs
2️⃣ #danieltigersneighborhood @pbskids
3️⃣ #docmcstuffins @disneyjunior

Link in Bio or click Link in Stories.

Want more links to shop & how-tos?
🔗 My LTK Shop
🔗 My Etsy Shop for My Printables
🔗 My Youtube Channel
🔗 MyWeekly Newsletter
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————

#ontheblog #toddlerspeech #kidshows
When I say, “Noah be Cappin’.” I literally m When I say, “Noah be Cappin’.” I literally mean Capricorning 🤣

Someone the other day said that Noah and I (earth signs) are wearing my hubs (water sign) out, and they are right 🤣🤣

The hubs can hold his own but trust even I ain’t no match for a Cap.

How do the zodiac signs make up your family dynamic? 

#familydinners #earthsigns #watersigns
Screen time is not as bad as everyone makes it. Screen time is not as bad as everyone makes it. 

Your child can learn by watching some great shows, including learning how to speak.

If you are looking for shows that can aid your toddler’s development, #ontheblogtoday I share 19 of the best shows for toddler speech development. 

Here are 3 of the shows that are on this list:
1️⃣ @msrachelforlittles
2️⃣ @sesamestreet
3️⃣ @officialpeppa

Link in Bio or click Link in Stories for the complete list of shows.

Want more links to shop & how-tos?
🔗 My LTK Shop
🔗 My Etsy Shop for My Printables
🔗 My Youtube Channel
🔗 MyWeekly Newsletter
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————
#toddlerspeech #kidshows #toddlerdevelopment
Hey mama! If you need to get more baby shampoo, #a Hey mama! If you need to get more baby shampoo, #aveeno  just went on sale. It’s $5 off right now on #amazon. 

Get it now while it lasts. Click link in my stories & highlights to get this product directly!

Follow my shop @accordingtoapril on the @shop.LTK app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content!

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One last birthday related post. 🎂 Loved my cak One last birthday related post. 🎂

Loved my cake so much that my sis @sweet_k_  got for me. I wanted something colorful and she nailed it. 

Thank you to everyone who wished me a Happy Birthday! 

Now back to back to business ♉️

#happybirthdaytome #taurus♉️ #aprilbaby
🎉Another trip around the Sun. Grateful is an un 🎉Another trip around the Sun. Grateful is an understatement. Happy birthday to me, one of the coolest ♉️ I know. 

Shout out to my sis and dad for helping make this mini shoot possible 🤣

#itsmybirthdaytoday #happybirthdaytome🎉 #chapter37
Hey Mama’s, this summer we’re taking these kid Hey Mama’s, this summer we’re taking these kids ☀️OUTSIDE 😎

Travel is back in full swing, and if you are looking for a travel stroller for kids under 55 pounds , check out my full review on the GB+ All City Stroller. 

Why you need this stroller: 😮‍💨
💰It’s affordable
💨Ships Fast
🏋🏾‍♀️Lightweight
✈️TSA Compliant

Follow @accordingtoaprilxo for more must-have products for your kids under five (5) years old. 

Links to shop & how-tos:
🔗 My LTK Shop
🔗 My Youtube Channel
🔗 MyWeekly Newsletter
Go to the link in the bio to get the deets!
——————

This is my all-time favorite stroller 😘chef’s kiss😘. It comes in different colors and styles, but for the lux feel, get it in BLACK 🖤!

#liketkit #LTKkids #LTKfamily #LTKtravel
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Girl, stop scrolling on IG and get some tasks you Girl, stop scrolling on IG and get some tasks you need done, DONE!

There are so many things that you can automate. 

❌NO❌excuse not to getting shopping, pay bills, or buy these kids toys they aren’t going to play with 🤣 

You can use apps to get 90% of your to-dos done while watching your kids play in the playground. 

Not everything has to be handled by phone or in person, so use this time to free the mental space that you have. 

Follow @accordingtoaprilxo for more mom time management hacks!

#momselfcare #timemanagementtips #momlifeunfiltered
The pandemic babies are now toddlers and preschool The pandemic babies are now toddlers and preschoolers. We’ve entered that phase where we have to start teaching them how to be independent of us. 

While this transition is hard, it’s necessary as it’s a part of growing up.

If you’re struggling with how to get your PB off the tablet, try my Printables. It’s made for kits 3-5, and it helps practice the skill needed for kindergartens, like reading, writing, coloring, and letter association. 

Just 10 minutes a day is a start. It doesn’t have to be deep; it must be intentional. 

Link in the Bio of my Etsy Shop to get your printable today!

#etsyprintables #kidsactivitiesathome #preschoolactivitiesathome
Are you struggling to find a captivating way to fa Are you struggling to find a captivating way to familiarize your kids with the world of STEM? 👨🏽‍🔬

This science kit has been created to provide a fun and educational opportunity for kids 3 and older. 

Packed with stimulating and entertaining experiments, this science kit encourages kids to explore topics such as physics, biology, and chemistry interactively and memorably. 

❌Don’t let your kid’s STEM journey get stuck in the starting blocks. ❌

Try the science kit today and join thousands of other parents in introducing their kids to the exciting world of STEM.

Comment STEM KIT to have the details sent via DM. 

#stemtoys #kidactivities #scienceexperiments
Don’t let the journey of motherhood make you for Don’t let the journey of motherhood make you forget the woman you ARE!

These kids, these husbands, and these responsibilities can make it easy to get lost in who you are vs. what you are.

If you haven’t, go outside for a few minutes to touch some grass, take a deep breath and recite this affirmation to yourself…

✨Every day, in every way, I’m getting better and better✨

Share in the comments some more affirmations you say to yourself often 👇🏾
Science is the future! Get your kid ahead of the Science is the future! 

Get your kid ahead of the game with this awesome kit. Check out this 60 experiment science kit for kids three and older - perfect for getting those little minds thinking! 

Full video on YouTube, Link in Bio - don’t miss it! 🤩

Follow @accordingtoaprilxo for more kid product recommendations.

#stemforkids #kidactivities #kidproducts
Cooking with kids can be challenging, but the rewa Cooking with kids can be challenging, but the rewards outweigh the frustration.

If you’re trying to figure out something to do with your kids, here is an easy activity that takes 30 mins and that they will enjoy. 

The pros of this activity are that it’s “no-bake,” so you don’t have to worry about cutting on the oven, which means, no risk of injuries. WIN-WIN

Follow @accordingtoaprilxo for more mommy and me activities. 

#kidactivities #preschoollearning #nobakecheesecake
⏰ MAMA’s It's time to take a break and show yo ⏰ MAMA’s It's time to take a break and show yourself some love! 💖 

Check out my new video with 4 easy self-care tips for busy moms! 

Click the link in my bio to watch! 🔗 #momlifeunfiltered  #momselfcare #newyoutubevideo
There are many fun ways to get your young learners There are many fun ways to get your young learners to engage with the alphabet letters. 

Using my printable alphabet activities is one of them. With this printable, you can color words associated with the letter.

With the printable letter, there is space for you to color inside the letter as well. 

Each page is colorful with capital letters and lowercase ones, so if your child learns in different ways.

These ABC printables will accommodate that.

I share more on the blog about why you should get one of my printables for your child. 

Link in bio

#etsyprintables #ontheblognow #kidactivities
It’s never too early to introduce your kids to S It’s never too early to introduce your kids to STEM. 

Continuing my mission to decrease screen time, today, the boss and I work on the My First Science Kit by Blippi. 

Every time we play it, he says “scientist,” and he loves making a mess and bing creative. 

I do a full review on my YouTube channel of this and more products for kids. 

Link in Bio 📹. 

#blippi #stemtoys #preschoolactivity #kidproducts
                 

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